A letter from Jun 24, 2024

Dear FutureMe, This is forgiveness🥺 making the decision that the ones who hurt you no longer get to limit you, label you or project the lies the believe about themselves unto you. Somewhere along the way they got hurt, really, really hurt. Maybe they aren't necessarily bad people but chances are maybe they are unhealed people. But honestly aren't we all unhealed people? Do we ever get to the place where finally I've figured it all out? Like I'm never going to do anything else wrong. No, we'll never get to that point on this side of eternity. We can grow, we can go to counseling, we can study the Bible we can allow God to have His way with the sanctification process, but if I look at people who have hurt me and just say they are such bad people, then forgiveness will feel like a really unfair gift I have to give. But if I change my perspective and say they are unhealed people then it helps(to be continued)