are you still married?

Dear FutureMe, today you're sitting here heart-broken, in Korea, 10 month's married to the love of your life (is he still?), and trying to decide if you should leave him or not. Is he sorry for the pain he caused having an affair? Or is he more sorry he got caught? Today, you believe that he is still thinking of her, and comparing you to her. He seems to be using intimicy as a weapon against you, in some sick, perverted way. It seems he fought so hard to get you to move to France and marry him just to prove he was able to get you. Now he has decided he can do better. If you are together still, you better be very happy in love, in a committed, loving, affectionate marriage where he is communicating with you. If you are not, then leave now. Leave a copy of this email for him to read and let yourself find real happiness. You have the strengh to do it, and he doesn't deserve you.