A letter from January 22nd, 2016

Dear FutureT, I don't envy you. Just kidding! J and I just broke up a couple of weeks ago, having a rough go right now, but trying to pick up the pieces of life. Not drinking, not smoking, started swing dancing, hitting the gym regularly (our newest kick is HIIT and strength training - did you stick with it?). Currently 199.8 lbs (down from 210-ish), are you any less? Do you maybe care less? Are you healthy? Your bp right now is around 124/84, did it improve? Are you still single? I doubt it. Did you give yourself enough time to heal and learn about YOU, and how to love and take care of yourself? I hope you're not with the wrong guy. Hell, I kind of hope you're not even in Canada. Did you move to Norway, or Denmark, or Holland or something? What are you doing? Did you get a teaching gig? Are you doing research? Right now I'm working with Kate at CHI - how did that turn out? Honestly, I have no idea what you're doing - but I'll bet it's not boring. Right now we're technically homeless, living at dad's place (it's driving us ******* insane), but in just a week we're moving to Osborne!!! Exciting!!! Are you a famous artist yet? Do you have your own studio? Do you own a house? Are you out of debt (hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaa)? I hope you and F are still BFFs. How's her little guy? OMG he's TEN now! He must be adorable. I hope you're happy and well. Take care, love you. T