A letter from December 28th, 2014

Dear FutureMe, It's around 11 years into the future.. and I will never know if you will ever be able to read this letter.. but here comes words of wisdom.. out of a recent experience.. and you gotta hear it. Dear me.. if you are married by now, and you have a child.. you have to remind yourself to not be over protective.. give them some space for freedom, creativity, and self develoment. They need to make mistakes to learn.. and they need to learn to develop experiences and rational. You have to rise them so they can grow to be independant... loving.. caring.. and self confident... and that would not happen as long as you are tailing them.. trust me.. you have been through this.. and you know it yourself.. dont make the same mistake twice! You had lived through limits, you have been broken not once, nor twice, but much more.. you have fought your way to become the person you are.. Let them be the same.. create a healthy environment so they can develop decently.. i know you can do it.. you will do it.. because you are me :) and tough love .. is still love.. you realize right? If you have not had a child till now.. you know what.. it is what allah have written.. and it is for the best.. everything comes at the right time so you have to be strong and get to wear some patience and be thankful for what you already have.. dont be greedy :) you have been blessed throughout your life.. and if one thing isn't there.. it is not a big deal.. do not lose hope.. do not lose the reasons you became who you are.. if you had all what you wanted.. you would not be who you are.. and if you have not been married yet.. it is not a big deal.. and it should never be.. that means that allah had saved someone better for you later on.. don't make it a life or ***** issue.. nor a happiness's limit.. it is neither both.. it is just something that allah had wanted to save for a better reason.. and you got to trust him..He made you so strong to handle this.. not everyone can.. so you got to smile.. and thank allah for the person he allowed you to be.. agree? By that.. I end my letter.. it's my first letter that I send way beyond the future.. it is freaking me out just thinking about it.. by the way.. you are 35! and I'm still just 24.. lot of wisdom to gain huh? Love you always, ♥