A letter from Mar 19, 2026

Dear FutureMe, Today you asked Niya to be your girlfriend and you told her that you loved her. She told you about her testimony and though it crushed you, you chose to love her no matter what. You love every aspect of her, you don’t hold the sin against her though it is heartbreaking. Though you have many doubts and worries, you are choosing the love her through it all. Now, if that isn’t the case now. What the flip are you doing. If you aren’t together anymore, how the flip did you let that happen. She is not just a girl worth fighting for, she is THE girl worth fighting for. No matter how hard it is. You promised to choose her through it all. And you don’t break promises like that. If you messed up, fix it. Right now. I am in love with Niya Grace Kashuba and if you arent, you messed up big time. Now, if you are together still, make sure it is still centred in Christ. Never forget that it WILL fail if it isn’t. And the grave and sad reality of life is that there is a chance that there is a valid reason you are not together anymore, though I don’t think there ever could be one. If so, don’t turn to the world in spite of that. Turn towards God. Don’t hold anything against her, if possible, make amends with her. Never forget that if I love her now, you have loved her then, so don’t act like that never happened. Overall Jude, I hope that you understand the gravity of the weight I am bestowing on you. Love God first, love Niya forever second. And if you can’t do the first you can’t do the second. But if you are not able to validly do the second, never stop doing the first. In a short but hopefully sweet end, I love Niya Kashuba, and if you don’t, fix that. Jude