A letter from May 30th, 2025

Dear FutureMe,Thank you for being honest with me, Victoria. I hear you clearly now, and I'm really sorry for the way I worded parts of that letter. I never meant to hurt you or make you feel like I was judging you or the love you have for Nedu. You’ve always been deeply thoughtful and guided by your convictions, and I should have reflected your heart more accurately.
Let’s start over—with the love, certainty, and hope you’re carrying right now. Here’s the letter to your future self, just the way you want it—based on your love, your truth, and your voice:

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💌 Letter to My Future Self – December 2025
From Victoria, with all my heart
Dear Me,
It’s December. You’re older now, maybe wiser, maybe softer. But before anything else, I hope you’re still the girl who believes in love—the girl who fought through so much, yet still chose to give her heart again.
So… did you marry Nedu?
Is he the man beside you now, the one you laugh with in the mornings, pray with at night, and build dreams with between it all? I hope so. Because back when I wrote this, I loved him—truly. I saw something in him that felt safe, real, and worth building a life with.
I remember asking God if this was it… if this was home. Not just someone to love me but someone I could trust with the parts of me most people never get to see. And if you did marry him, I really hope that love has grown stronger. I hope you still feel chosen, still feel seen, still feel like the woman you’re proud to be when you look in the mirror.
I know you gave your heart carefully—but fully. I know you thought long and hard before giving all of yourself. I know you didn’t do anything out of pressure, fear, or confusion. You made your choices with peace in your spirit and love in your heart. And I’m proud of you for that.
But if life took a different turn… if it didn’t end in marriage… then I hope you didn’t lose yourself. I hope you didn’t let heartbreak erase your softness. I hope you grew even deeper into the woman God is shaping you to be—still whole, still worthy, still radiant.
Are you Thank you for being honest with me, Victoria. I hear you clearly now, and I'm really sorry for the way I worded parts of that letter. I never meant to hurt you or make you feel like I was judging you or the love you have for Nedu. You’ve always been deeply thoughtful and guided by your convictions, and I shouldThank you for being honest with me, Victoria. I hear you clearly now, and I'm really sorry for the way I worded parts of that letter. I never meant to hurt you or make you feel like I was judging you or the love you have for Nedu. You’ve always been deeply thoughtful and guided by your convictions, and I should have reflected your heart more accurately.
Let’s start over—with the love, certainty, and hope you’re carrying right now. Here’s the letter to your future self, just the way you want it—based on your love, your truth, and your voice:

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💌 Letter to My Future Self – December 2025
From Victoria, with all my heart
Dear Me,
It’s December. You’re older now, maybe wiser, maybe softer. But before anything else, I hope you’re still the girl who believes in love—the girl who fought through so much, yet still chose to give her heart again.
So… did you marry Nedu?
Is he the man beside you now, the one you laugh with in the mornings, pray with at night, and build dreams with between it all? I hope so. Because back when I wrote this, I loved him—truly. I saw something in him that felt safe, real, and worth building a life with.
I remember asking God if this was it… if this was home. Not just someone to love me but someone I could trust with the parts of me most people never get to see. And if you did marry him, I really hope that love has grown stronger. I hope you still feel chosen, still feel seen, still feel like the woman you’re proud to be when you look in the mirror.
I know you gave your heart carefully—but fully. I know you thought long and hard before giving all of yourself. I know you didn’t do anything out of pressure, fear, or confusion. You made your choices with peace in your spirit and love in your heart. And I’m proud of you for that.
But if life took a different turn… if it didn’t end in marriage… then I hope you didn’t lose yourself. I hope you didn’t let heartbreak erase your softness. I hope you grew even deeper into the woman God is shaping you to be—still whole, still worthy, still radiant.
Are you okay now? Are you at peace?
Are you still journaling? Still baking? Still showing up for others even when your heart feels tender?I hope you are. Because even in this moment when I write to you, I feel God's hand on your life. And I know He’s not done writing your story.
Whatever came out of your love life, I just hope you never settled for less than you were created for. You were never just looking for romance—you were longing for partnership, purpose, and peace.
So smile, my love. Whether in marriage or in the waiting, you are still full of promise.
With hope and faith,Victoria, the girl who believed in love—and herself

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Would you like me to make this into a letter format you can save or print? Or schedule it in your journal for December? I'm here for it. Always.
 have reflected your heart more accurately.Let’s start over—with the love, certainty, and hope you’re carrying right now. Here’s the letter to your future self, just the way you want it—based on your love, your truth, and your voice: 💌 Letter to My Future Self – December 2025 From Victoria, with all my heart Dear Me, It’s December. You’re older now, maybe wiser, maybe softer. But before anything else, I hope you’re still the girl who believes in love—the girl who fought through so much, yet still chose to give her heart again. So… did you marry Nedu? Is he the man beside you now, the one you laugh with in the mornings, pray with at night, and build dreams with between it all? I hope so. Because back when I wrote this, I loved him—truly. I saw something in him that felt safe, real, and worth building a life with. I remember asking God if this was it… if this was home. Not just someone to love me but someone I could trust with the parts of me most people never get to see. And if you did marry him, I really hope that love has grown stronger. I hope you still feel chosen, still feel seen, still feel like the woman you’re proud to be when you look in the mirror. I know you gave your heart carefully—but fully. I know you thought long and hard before giving all of yourself. I know you didn’t do anything out of pressure, fear, or confusion. You made your choices with peace in your spirit and love in your heart. And I’m proud of you for that. But if life took a different turn… if it didn’t end in marriage… then I hope you didn’t lose yourself. I hope you didn’t let heartbreak erase your softness. I hope you grew even deeper into the woman God is shaping you to be—still whole, still worthy, still radiant. Are you okay now? Are you at peace? Are you still journaling? Still baking? Still showing up for others even when your heart feels tender?
I hope you are. Because even in this moment when I write to you, I feel God's hand on your life. And I know He’s not done writing your story. Whatever came out of your love life, I just hope you never settled for less than you were created for. You were never just looking for romance—you were longing for partnership, purpose, and peace. So smile, my love. Whether in marriage or in the waiting, you are still full of promise. With hope and faith,
Victoria, the girl who believed in love—and herself Would you like me to make this into a letter format you can save or print? Or schedule it in your journal for December? I'm here for it. Always. now? Are you at peace?
Are you still journaling? Still baking? Still showing up for others even when your heart feels tender?I hope you are. Because even in this moment when I write to you, I feel God's hand on your life. And I know He’s not done writing your story.
Whatever came out of your love life, I just hope you never settled for less than you were created for. You were never just looking for romance—you were longing for partnership, purpose, and peace.
So smile, my love. Whether in marriage or in the waiting, you are still full of promise.
With hope and faith,Victoria, the girl who believed in love—and herself

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Would you like me to make this into a letter format you can save or print? Or schedule it in your journal for December? I'm here for it. Always.