A letter from Mar 28, 2025

Tiktok - 2 months till your lease is up. Did he propose yet? No? Then it's not happening! You've got this move on!!! Remember this: Don't let your BF Graham stop you from meeting your husband: I left a decade long relationship that was going nowhere. I felt so resentful, upset, and angry that I wasn’t anywhere near marriage, let alone having kids, in my early 30s. I felt these feelings every day and felt absolutely miserable. At a certain point, I realized that I deserve better, and that I’d rather be alone than be miserable and begging. I didn’t want it if that was what it would take to get there and I knew I’d never get past the fact that if we did get married, it was because I threatened to break up. And that that point, I left not knowing what was next, but knowing that I’d be okay because I can rely on myself and I am my own best friend. It took me a few years to get there, but nothing would’ve changed if I didn’t take ownership over my situation. I believe it’s better to be alone than be with the wrong person. We have so many choices in life; choose to prioritize yourself, and respect yourself enough to walk away with the hope that life will work itself out. Spend some time to re-evaluate what is really important to you in life and in relationships. Once you know what you really want, it’s a lot easier to weed out what you don’t. The man who doesn’t want to marry you is not the person you wanna marry, because you’d be signing up for a lifetime of these feelings. You deserve better than that.