A letter from January 24th, 2025

Dear Future Me,
As I sit here today, I can’t help but reflect on everything I’ve been through—the ups and downs, the joy and pain. It’s been a journey of healing, growth, and self-discovery after the end of that five-year relationship. While it was difficult to let go, I’m proud of how far I’ve come. I know that moving on wasn’t easy, but every day has been a step forward, and I hope, by now, you’ve embraced all the lessons that came with it.
The past few years have taught me so much about betrayal and trust. I’ve learned that trust, once broken, can take time to rebuild—not just with others, but with myself. I’ve realized that trust isn’t just about relying on others; it’s about trusting myself to make the right choices, to be resilient, and to recognize when something is no longer right for me. I know it took a long time to heal from the hurt, but now I see it as part of my growth. It’s helped me understand the value of self-respect and the importance of surrounding myself with people who truly support and uplift me.
I also learned so much about commitment. I once believed that love alone could hold a relationship together, but I now know that commitment requires more than just feelings—it requires effort, mutual respect, and shared values. I hope, by now, you've learned how to give love freely, but also how to protect your heart when necessary. You’ve learned the difference between the kind of love that builds you up and the kind that drains you.
Through all of this, I’ve gained a deeper understanding of love itself. It’s not just about being there for someone during the good times; it’s about the ability to forgive, to heal, and to recognize that sometimes love means letting go. But most importantly, I’ve learned that love begins with self-love. And that’s been the greatest lesson of all—learning to care for and value myself, regardless of any past pain.
My career has also been a source of strength. In the midst of personal heartbreak, I found the courage to push forward, to refocus on my ambitions, and to channel my energy into my goals. I know you’ve made great strides in your career by now, and I hope you’ve kept pushing to achieve everything you’ve dreamed of. Remember that no setback, no matter how painful, can define you—your ambition and perseverance are what truly matter.
Through all the struggles, I’ve learned the most valuable lesson of all: life isn’t always predictable, and it’s okay not to have all the answers. But what matters is the willingness to keep moving forward, to grow from every experience, and to trust that better days are ahead. I hope you’ve held onto the resilience you’ve developed over the past years.
As you read this, I want you to remember how far you've come. The person you were when you first started this journey is no longer who you are today. You’ve learned, you’ve healed, and you’ve emerged stronger, wiser, and more compassionate. Never forget that the pain you’ve gone through was not in vain—it shaped the person you are now, someone who knows their worth and who can love without fear or hesitation.
I trust that you’ve found peace, that you’ve surrounded yourself with love, and that you’re continuing to build the life you deserve. Keep striving, keep believing, and keep loving—especially yourself. Your future is bright, and I can’t wait to see where it takes you.

With love,Almyra from past. ❤️