Dear FutureMe,
I am so proud of you at how far you have come in the last 10 years. From where you were at the age of 20. Having a baby, in an unhealthy relationship that was abusive, to unable to finish school because your priorities weren’t straight like you thought. To a lot of partying and living. You made a lot of great memories but hid a lot of pain.
Right before turning 30 you wanted a healthier version of you. You took your mental health serious and put in work for yourself. Continuous therapy, dealing with your depression/anxiety, letting go of friendships & relationships that are not serving you. Creating an atmosphere that is healthy for you and your babies. Being more present for your babies.
For your 30’s you have set the Intentions of peace, love, and happiness. To be a better version of yourself.
You have left a relationship, which has been painful, but to make the Intensions you set for yourself to be true. You have realized life is too short to be Unhappy. & all through your 20’s you were Unhappy. The best version and happiest version of yourself will reflect in your boys. They too will be the best versions of themselves.
I hope you have kept your goals in vision and keep knocking each one off of your list. Because you are capable of anything you set your mind too. You are strong, resilient, admirable, a leader, a loving mother, and a wonderful friend.
Hold on to the people who fill up your cup when needed and don’t forget to keep filling theirs up as well. 💜
Love always, Me.
You have grown so much from 20 until 30. Keep growing & glowing!
Epilogue
over 3 years later
Dear Me,
I need you to pause for a moment and really take in how far you’ve come because I know you don’t give yourself enough credit.
Life didn’t get...
Ehdpo it dlwou yuo cone mlgliayac eairse ikle. In in tog yas,w ,tcaf yman eihrvea ti. Eelopp tno’d vou’ye krrtebah,ae iecadrr ktecbssa, nncou,fois most eht that uto of adn ktla otaub dkni otinemloa htgiwe lodu. Yuo still erhe ear eyt dan. Llsit rtnyig. Gishoonc nweh ti tretbe, tlisl vene trshu.
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Uyo ahroetn this tpsa owrdl s,arye ilfe teh ghutobr efvi in ntoi tufeibaul. Hrtee ear a ohermt fo now yuo. To loko ,love oyu cinudeag sunmha rethe yatsef, who elitlt adn fro. Hwo ivingg sa,dy yuo eoms hant oyu lefe yuo idpeest ermo aer emth irlzaee.
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Yuo taardugde - oyu ddi ngmsthieo nebiricdel. Oyu htaw coen ltfe dnisihfe ni mobpsiisel 252,0. Fo be ospt fo tyergievnh uyo won og?a hwo arsey tath wae in hes oyu to oiervsn uolwd ahd.
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A to uroy aiagn hatre ttdees enev bkac ni hatt uyo aeelv nad hte eebn lsieapnotrhi hsa thouhg sha fhtro luelpd ee,lydp aemd uyo oicche adn. A ’wstan ahtt newaskse. Ahtt a aws rttshneg. Wsa wrtogh tath. Ytirgrfein it oluey,sfr nda swa hgocison enve rnnuetcai ehwn ouy ahtt tlef.
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Now oknw elfe i lots uyo rghit.
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Sebt rof up lefe wokn nad fo oyu leik kdsi i nto teh yu’eor your as ,dotlsiae yevha, noigshw ruolesyf sevinro. Oyu up ldocu adn eakw swhi ouy gihlnae just -nvhiregto and clduo welo,h i ahtt reef hnpepa pha,py onkw flee.
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Orswk iths th’sat how ubt nto. Y’eruo ttha neam ’dtneos fngliia adn.
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Noe eqasru aer bcka not uyo at.
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Now ohw olsot era esenomo hsa oyu. Ensaawesr. Repeiecxne. Roednibsau. Yteh nieegczor rthgi aenor,my not ,ocd fi top—sydu wno ianga dllbiny uroy ouyr oruy even oruy lonroltdec enodpi,srse lefe iyea,txn emht by uoy duol are gbein.
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Tno neli hnalieg a is tgsaihrt. Ysmes ts’i. Pools it. It upasse. It estasrrt. Nvth’ea nad it uonnde eelsf leik ueyv’o etoeismms ,vehnretigy utb you.
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Onamw enco ltlsi oyu oyu o,gnsrt that atubo ear lieenrtsi torwe.
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Ahnt won rome uyero’ l,yctuala ahtt.
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Eepk ot waht parta uyo now llaf ucbsaee llist ielk wonk dna nigog it eflse.
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Yuo luvavirs not thtru, a era dilbgreiun place uoyr fo leif mfro.
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Ouyr mtie era ekta uyo oadllwe ot.
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Are leef and sad to dalolew esam hte lfpeouh teim you ta.
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Evha eowdlal aer tye gfudrie to tou ti lal oyu not.
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Si mreatst thaw it:sh.
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Era ouy gnryit.
Aer eterbt you csgionoh.
Era oyu sillt rehe.
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Ot be dopur gohmtsein si fo dna hatt.
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Od’nt eend a ouyr uoy esiovnr ptrecfe ksdi of.
Ehty one eral eend a.
A aghlein neo.
A one oinwgrg.
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Thta si owh rae ytcxeal ouy dan.
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Eepk ggoni.
No the vnee tuiqe ayds.
Eenv no ysda yhvea het.
U’oyre igkmna otn feel you sgserrop nvee nwhe ilke.
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Scbauee rae uoy.
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-teh feel fo bcka chum rn—doeva eht so wlil asicmosnop vrniose repdi dan grattisn o,nkwunn in lwil oyu one oen ,day istintg kool lruysefo shti you ta.
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Not oyu era solt.
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Oyu ni ddmiel eht fo ceminbgo are.
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,voel with.
💜 me.
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