Lessons on Children

Jasmine, I just wrote a letter to the 20-year-old me. 20 years old. It seems so young, doesn't it? I hope you still have this email address. Some things I think you should remember, always: -Be yourself. I know you're probably married by now, but remember; it's not love if you're not yourself. -Cutting your bangs is not a good idea. -Yes, you need a girl's night out. And now for advice for a daughter/son of yours: If you have a daughter: -Tell her you love her. -If she's a teenager, do little things for her--write her notes, give her hugs, talk when she needs it. -Don't let her drink. -Don't let her **** up her life. -Tell her you'll miss her when she leaves. -Don't yell at her when it's not her fault. -Let her be PMS-y. -For the love of God, do you remember what it was like to be a teenager?! An example of the emotion train: "OMGGGGGGGGcrapcrapcrapcrapOMGGGGGGGGcrapOMGcrap". It's hard, and it sucks. Be there for your daughter. If you have a son: -Tell him he's wonderful. -Don't let him turn out like Daddy. -Be there for him. That's all I really have to say. (: I hope you're happy, future Jasmine. Love, Jasmine, aged 15.