Future Me

Dear FutureMe, Hi, how are you? Where are you might be the better question! i hope wherever you are, and whatever you are doing you are happy - toe-tingling, jumping out of your skin, cant believe how happy you are happy! So just a few things future self. 1. If you are in a shitty half arsed relationship with someone who is emotionally unavailable, i have one piece of advice....RUN!!!!! it wont change, he is never going to be the person you want him to be and you know what, thats ok, you can move on, he isnt IT. You know you can get through this, so stop hanging on and move on! 2. You better have had some counselling already young lady, if you havent GET OFF YOUR ARSE and go do it. I dont want to hear any excuses about not being able to afford it, or not needing it. YOU DO, so go, grow a pair and face it, remember you can handle it. 3. I hope you've travelled, i hope you have seen amazing places, and met some amazing people, and been amazing yourself! Get out there, make the most of it. you have the opportunity to do so many awesome things so i hope you are. And I hope you've managed to cross a whole bunch of things off that bucket list of yours! 4. Be YOU! People love you, you love you, dont ever be afraid to be who you are. Those that make you feel bad for it, are not the right people for you. Be your crazy, clumsy, giggling, singing, dancing, happy self! 5. I hope you are making time for your family and friends, remind them of how much they mean to you and what an impact they have on your life. If you have lost touch with someone - call them, text them or email them - just say hi. 6. I hope that whatever you are doing for work is something you love, i hope you love it so much you are putting your heart and soul into it. If you arent, quit your job and find that perfect job for you. YOU CAN DO IT!!!! You know you can, dont be afraid of the unknown, embrace it! No decision that you make is bad, you will make the right choice and you will make it work, so do something for you and love it everyday! I think thats all from your past self, read this carefully, then read it again, then maybe one more time. your past self was inspired to make changes while writing this, so i hope my future me still has that same spirit! Remember - YOU CAN HANDLE IT, YOU CAN HANDLE ANYTHING. You are amazing, never ever let anyone make you feel less than that, BE YOU. Dont be afraid, throw yourself into everything you do, dont sweat about the small things, they dont matter, enjoy life, enjoy every awesome and shitty thing that happens to you, because it shapes you and makes you into the awesome person i know you are. Lots of love to you, once you have read this, go out and do something crazy, out of the ordinary, take a leap!!!!!!!